Thank goodness the elections are over. As much as I appreciate living in a country where I have at least a token say in government, I despise election season. I hate the mudslinging by candidates, I cannot stand my beautiful Stokes County landscape being littered with signs and I am disheartened by the enmity I witness between people of different political parties.
It’s done now, and I hope we can get back to normal life — or as Doc Holliday said in the movie Tombstone, “There is no normal life, Wyatt. There’s just LIFE.” Then let us get back to LIFE.
However, my kids will tell you that I don’t waste any experience. Thus, I have learned some key things in the past few months:
1. BOTH DEMOCRATS AND REPUBLICANS STEREOTYPE EACH OTHER. Many Democrats picture Republicans as uptight, straight-laced, gun-toting, narrow-minded citizens who don’t care about the poor, the disenfranchised, the broken. Likewise, many Republicans have pigeonholed Democrats as bleeding heart liberals with no morals, who care more about saving baby eagles than they do human babies, who cannot possibly be Christian.
Anything strike a chord with you? Did you Republicans say, “Absolutely right! Doggone liberal Democrats!”
And did you Democrats say, “But Republicans ARE everything you described, Leslie!”?
If so, then you are doing your fellow Americans a true disservice. As I’ve said before, I believe many Democrats are moderates who stand shoulder to shoulder with moderate Republicans — almost identical values and goals — just different parties for whatever reason.
A Democrat in Danbury labeled me a “compassionate Conservative,” and I liked that. Many Republicans (and Democrats) do care about the less fortunate, and many Democrats (and Republicans) are Christian. So I beg you to be careful with your stereotyping.
2. WE HAVE NO MERCY OR FORGIVENESS FOR POLITICAL FIGURES. We tend to write someone off forever if they do even one thing that we think is wrong. Now I agree that if someone clearly errs and won’t admit their wrong, they don’t need to be given a second chance to lead until they humble themselves and pledge to reform.
But what about a politician who blows it and has great humility in the situation? Do we say that this person, even though they may have the wisdom and capabilities to help turn this country around, is never again allowed to lead?
Who hasn’t blown it in some way? Are we putting our leaders on a pedestal and daring them to totter? They are not gods but merely men and women with fleshly tendencies just like us.
I read last week that many Christian leaders who commit secret sins keep those sins hidden all of their lives because they know that if they confess and repent publicly, they will be mercilessly attacked by other Christians and never given another chance to use the giftings and callings God gave them.
What a mess this creates. There are few Christian leaders who haven’t blown it in some way, sadly enough. But they are nervously keeping these skeletons in the closet because they know they can’t count on forgiveness, loving guidance and eventual restoration to leadership. Even though transparency is so important, no one feels comfortable being transparent; everyone clutches their dirty little secrets to themselves. Our harsh judgment has created a vicious cycle of denial.
I believe the same holds true for politicians. Which of them hasn’t compromised at least a little? But few are brave enough to admit it, fearing that they will lose the next election to some other politician who still claims false infallibility. We have created a culture where being fake makes us much more successful than being REAL.
3. PEOPLE STILL OVERWHELMINGLY VOTE ACCORDING TO RACE. I find this to be the most disturbing thing that stood out in the 2012 election. I guess as a person who considers herself color-blind, I keep hoping that people have mentally evolved enough to look beyond the color of a person’s skin.
I have white friends who would never have dared to vote for Obama, because he is a black man; their decision had nothing to do with values or goals — it was all about not having a black man in the White House. This in itself puzzles me, because his mother was white, which makes him as much white as black.
I also have black friends — staunch Christians who are anti-abortion, who don’t support a two-state solution for Israel and who have conservative personal values — who voted for Obama primarily because he is considered a black man. They were willing to look beyond values that are critical to them so that a man of their own race could be elected.
I am troubled by both sides here, by any “race” (if there is such a thing) that sticks with their own no matter what. I guess we are still more bound by the confines of color than I want to admit.
4. CHILDREN OFTEN ARE MUCH WISER THAN ADULTS. On Election Night, my son said he hated the fact that America has political parties. He passionately declared that we would be so much better off if we had no parties and every person simply ran based on his/her goals and values without anyone stuffing him/her into a party box.
Go ahead and try to argue with his logic and tell him how that’s not possible, how parties are needed. Meanwhile, I will pat him on the back and say, “I agree, son.”
People vote along party lines so often without even considering the values of the person they are voting for. If we had no Democratic, Libertarian or Republican parties, then maybe we would more closely examine what the candidate actually stands for.
So when all is said and done, you might say that I am rather disillusioned by what I learned during the 2012 election. But I will put back on my rose-colored glasses, retreat to my old paths and keep believing that despite the failings of humanity as a whole (including my own), things will get better, this country will still move positively forward and hope springs eternal in the human breast.
Leslie Bray Brewer welcomes your emails at firstname.lastname@example.org. Visit her blog at http://timesofrefreshingontheoldpaths.wordpress.com.